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So many marriages taking place this month, how can you be sure that this is the man you want to spend the rest of your life with? to be submissive and loyal, how can you be sure that he's the right man for you? I get scared a lot of times when it comes to the issue of marriage, sometimes i get the idea that marriage is just a whole boring experience and as a matter of fact, i could say it's my greatest fear, i mean i get this whole idea that the fun in marriage is just the whole party thing, the wedding dress, party and all that and after all that is over, you just get to repeat a particular routine daily like wake up, clean up the house, go to work, make food available and take care of the kids and house and hubby, i mean you repeatedly get to do this daily for the rest of your life, i mean it's a big decision to take when you finally decide to get married, i respect people getting married, it's not as easy as it seems when you think about it, i mean you have to stay submissive for the rest of your life and loyal to just one person for as many years as you have to live, how can you be sure that this is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with? I mean there has to be more to it than your heart beating for this person or you being happy whenever this person is around or beauty, cuteness or wealth, there has got to be more to knowing that this is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, someone has got to talk to me, i really want to get rid of this fear, i don't want to be a victim of those who find love after marriage, I'm willing to privately talk in my inbox too, matured minds only...... Thanks bridal shower dresses